October 12, 2014
How to know if a guy is worth giving a chance?
Every women dreamed to have a perfect relationship, they seek for a proper man that will guide them and lead them until the end. But there are things that stops them and that is fear. fear of might get hurt,fear of might being left behind, and fear of might getting decieved the man who she choose to be with. and its just normal, its normal to get hurt,its normal to get left behind and its normal to get decieved by the wrong guy, and you really need to experience it to able to know what are wrong things, and will give you lesson and learn how to make things dont happen again. but what if the guy is already the right person and you are just not sure that the guy you are doubting is already the right person. are really going to ignore him and risk the chance?
Today i will share you the good points that will lessen your doubts if that guys is really worth giving a chance. as i will give you some of the good quality personality of a guy.
A guy must have a dream
In every conversation you must always find ways to know what is that guy's dream, in that way you can get the idea whats on his mind and where he is going to. I know dreams have 50% chances that it might happen or not and it depends on a person, but its better than a guy who has no dream, because a guy has no dream then where will he go right?. dreams are guides and it will also give you idea on a guy's personality.
Check the guy
When you have some idea on that guy depends on his words and action, check the guy if he is diligent on what his doing, because if a guy is a stubborn and lazy person then he is not thinking of the long term happiness between you two. a guy who has a mindset of working hard is like a guy who is trying to build a happy family and money is one of the best asset and also a foundation for trying to build a happy and big family.
Always be an open minded person.
According to my oberservation most people are afraid to know about the truth and that whats makes them in a disadvantage situation.
Information is power
Talk to that person always. Gaining more information about him lets you get rid of your doubts. Relationship starts when you slowly knows him correctly. And when you start knowing him, you will know if hes is the right person or not. when you always keep a person in a pending situation, you might lost him because there are some people who knew him already that he is not that kind of person you thought he is.
Dont refuse a guy to a conversation if he ask you to have a conversation
Dont fear of something you dont know yet. a guy who wants to have a conversation with you is a fair deal. it is an exchange of information about you and the person whos with you. A guy who wants to talk to you wants to know about you and also you can also have the chance to know him too. but for me personally, if i like the girl, i want her to know me and nothing else i want to do. but if you like that guy too, then why will you refuse to give him a chance to talk with you, its just a talk and not to bite you and when you start giving a chance to let a guy talk, you will start knowing him too and you will know if his worth or not giving him a chance to you.
"Truth always prevail and the disadvantage of not knowing the truth will always leads you in a disadvantage situations."