October 17, 2014
How to stay Motivated
Staying motivated is a blessing, but it is not easy too to become one. Most people when they learn to become self motivated after just for a few months, they slowly become from being self motivated to negative persons. So why is it happening?
The First thing you need to do is you must boost your confidence. Because when you lack confidence in yourself, the power to become self -motivated become weaker and weaker. The reasons why the level of your confidence are going down is because of failures, personal problems, relationships,when one your love ones passed away and when someone is greater than you.
But whatever happen. when something is lacking after the events that are happening to you, always remember to be always be grateful for the things that you still have and count them now. Always be reminded and always accept that life is unfair and dont compare yourself to other person. When you finally accept those things in your head, you will start to change everything around you and i will explain it to you in the next paragraph.
Always be grateful for the things that you still have
Being grateful for everything is one sign of positivity , the things that you still have still serve your needs, you dont still need other things, you might be just bored, and you just want something new, but looking for new things is just temporary happiness. the true happiness is knowing how to discipline your self that the important thing is the things that you need and not the things that you just want.
Life is unfair
Accept the fact that life is unfair, this is one of the reason that pull your confidence down. You are born different from each other but the only different from you and other people is how you think and that is your advantage from others. Because when you are below from other people, you aim to be at the top and you struggle to reach the top, the experience you learn from the past until you reach the top is the one of the greatest gift than the material things that you aim to have. because life is unfair and that is what makes you push you to learn more.
Dont compare yourself to other people
The second reason why you lose your confidence is because you are comparing yourself to other people.
Comparing yourself to other people = Insecurity = Negative thought = Pain =not feeling well= hating yourself=decrease confidence in your self
and that is why you dont need to compare yourself to other people. Life is not a competition its all about learning how to improve yourself more.
Set Your Goals
To maintain your motivation and to have a purpose to your motivation, you will need to set your goals, to stay motivated you need to have reason why you need to be motivated and it also give you direction where your motivation will go, if it will going to improve more or strengthen your personality.
To Develop more being Self-Motivated this are the things your are going to do
Step 1.Read Books
Step 2.Research for quotes for specific problem
Step 3.Red more Blogs
And last but not the least
Steps 4. Always Recite what you learn.(ex. writing your motivational message in your Social Networking Site)
When you start reciting what you learn, you are always reminding yourself what you learn. because when you are not doing it, Your brain slowly forget it.
Conclusion:
This is my guide how to maintain being motivated and how to avoid getting self confidence go down. it is simply because you are focus on other people than finding ways how to improve yourself and discipline. Because in your world, what you do is only for the sake of your own happiness, and if you always focus yourself to other people, then you are not focus to be self motivated, you are focusing on collecting pain from others.